So, TG and I were having a discussion and we could not come to a clear answer and thought that perhaps the wise and wonderful people of the BDSN Library forums might be able to help us.

Do you (meaning the submissives) or your submissive(s) (referring to the Dominant among us) take the initiative regarding scenes? Does the submissive come to you and say "I would like a whipping, please." or "Please, Master, tie me up?" or is that something that the Dominant should be responsible for saying when and where the scenes happen.

Any input and/or advice/personal experiences and preferences are appreciated. And, if you like, explain why you voted the way that you did - or just vote - both would be helpful.

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