My wife and I are thinking of finding a female sub. Our requirements are a bit restrictive, given that we need to keep this relatively quiet from our three daughters.

My wife is a submissive who would like to try dominating another woman; however, she has always had lesbian fantasies -- and I'm rather fascinated with the thought of her playing with another woman.

We haven't a clue as to how to go about locating such a person, especially in our local area (Clearwater, FL, near Tampa-St.Pete).

My thought is to pursue this online, perhaps in chat rooms, getting building an initial relationship before getting physical. My wife is terrified that someone will find out about her desires; she was raised Catholic, and has all the associated guilts.

Any suggestions?