So i'm married, he is a wonderful man, perfect, except for one thing... he doesn't want to be my master.

There is no way on earth to make someone want to live that way when they don't want to, but i will never leave him. In the past it has caused me some sorrow because i am giving up a big part of my mental desires because of him, but after reading the posts on this site i have been given hope. You see i realised i could serve him as a slave should even when you does not command me.

SO my question is, broadly speaking can anyone give me some background to how they serve their master in daily tasks? i hope that will let me see what i should be doing even though he won't command me.