Hello everyone,
I have been having a little trepidation in regards to my lifestyle choice recently. I enjoy my mates, and everything that we do, but I am a little afraid that my LONG history with being a child abuse victim is making it very easy for me to be okay with being called names and pushed and/or punished during sex. I have never felt okay with normal therapists (try being a teen and telling one that you LIKED being abused...that went over well). I just...need someone who is in the lifestyle and has been longer than I to tell me that I'm not just interested in asphixia play and name calling because I'm used to it.

Please help.

Fyrefly