If you are on top have you gone too far and had to step back? Or if you are a sub, has your Dominant gone too far and then backed off with "I'm sorry, I can't do this?" We reached that point, and it didn't end the fun for the night, but it was a pause, a break, a moment that keeps coming back to me and making me think, why too far, why is one act more disturbing than others?

If anyone is interested, or wants to share their own story, I can be more specific.