This morning I read this quote:

“Right on the edge of fear was where trust could grow.” ― Cherise Sinclair
It is, of course, from a book, but I have heard it before... Fear makes the dance between Dominant and submissive during a scene, more intense. Of course, some want the terror associated with Consensual Non-Consent. (CNC). For some a little bit of apprehension is a good thing, while for others, fear simply closes them down.

It got me wondering about a few things (for those who enjoy a little (or perhaps a lot) of fear with their playtime):

What level of fear do Y/you prefer?

Is that fear for the implements? For the demands that will be placed on you? Fear of the Dominant?

Are Y/you able to articulate what the fear does in your body and mind?


And then the bonus question: Does fear help your trust to grow? Can the sub say so about the Dominant and why? And does a sub's fear make Your trust in him/her grow, Dominant?


Thank Y/you in anticipation for all responses.