So I went out and played at a club for the first time last night. I was with a group of friends, but being a young nubile-ish female, I was approached by a number of dirty old men who were a bit pushy in asking to scene with me. Most of them were just icky, but one guy seemed okay and I actually thought about it.

Then, at the last second, I chickened out and told him sorry, and only played with people I knew. My question is, for those of you who are experienced at that sort of thing, what are your feelings on scening with people you've just met? I wouldn't want to trust some random person's toys to be sanitary, but is spanking safe? How about caning? The idea was sexy in theory, but I doubt a stranger would be as good as somebody who knows me and knows what I like...

Basically, I'd just like people's thoughts on this. And if this was already up in a thread someplace and I missed it, I apologize.