Is it weird or normal to get into and out of several online relationships before you find one that fits? I keep meeting doms who start out consistent and seem to be able to 'fit the bill' as it were but something goes wrong or uncomfortable and it dissolves. This latest one made me feel off because it seemed like I had to be in charge of contacting him first, like he expected me to contact him multiple times a day but sometimes he wouldn't contact me for days. I'm just not going to be pathetic and desperate enough to let just anyone control me as much as i want to be controlled. There has to be that level of trust developed even in an online relationship yeah?

I'm going to keep trying and maybe post my own 'sub seeking' thread and be as specific as possible in that so there won't be as many misunderstandings!

I was just curious as to other subs experience with this and if others have gone through several relationships before finding the right one.