Salutations all,

While I am somewhat lagging behind my pet in this department I am new to the BDSM lifestyle and only just discovered this dominate side of myself sleeping dormant. I t is a true charge and I seek to improve myself. My pet(ahmandi2) is a very wonderful woman and I respect and love her with my heart and soul. Seeing her smile brings a warmth to my heart.

A little of myself I am a firefighter and live apart from my pet I am endeavoring to close this distance so that I can make her wish come true to truly own her. However I feel as though I must walk a tightrope for I wish to allow her to keep her freedom( her VERY bratty spirit) at times and one of the things I find give her such a spark that light to my life and happiness. On the other side I strive to make her mine in all things and to quiet her world as she quiets mine.

I hope that I can learn from other Dominants here so that I can use a fair yet gentle hand to exercise the strength I have over my pet but show her the love and respect she richly deserves. For as she completes me I complete her I look forward to hearing from all of you and will listen. For it was once wrote "Nosce te ipsum" and that I seek to do. I hope that none mind me asking questions for I have many and do not wish to break her but fan a fire I know burns within us both.