Just to give you all an update: I started a new project after thinking about all the advice I got here and on the chatroom and itīs going much better. Iīm 5 chapters into it and itīs still running. I donīt have the feeling that itīs just a sequence of scenes any more. I donīt know yet, how it will go on but Iīm getting better at keeping to my basic story line and not getting lost in secondary scenes.
Thank you all, and hopefully you will soon get to read the fifnished project ;-)
deigja