Quote Originally Posted by thir View Post
Various thoughts come to me while reading this:

That poly can take many forms, and it does not nessecarily mean a dom with many slaves/subs. It could be a sub with more than one dom. A slave owned by a couple. Or it could be a network, where everybody has more than one partner in various degrees of intimacy. This solves the time/attention problem mentioned, which is certainly real enough. "Love is not limited, but time is."

The variation you mention suits people who are into a 'harem' model, meaning that they enjoy the companionship with their slave sisters, and enjoy sharing their Master. If this is not your special interest, then you probably should not choose someone with so many slaves.

Maybe you should ask yourself: what specifically is it about poly that attracts you? What are your interests and needs, and what can you offer? You could also go online and find sites that orientates around poly, or bdsm poly, and read about various life-styles problems, and joys, and see if that can give you pointers as to where your needs are.

Good luck!

ooops. I should've read further before writing my, essentially, redundant response.