Denuseri... yes this is a real life relationship. I have a hard time understanding online BDSM.

Shark... when I first started my venture being a slave, I wasn't expecting to find the Master that I did. We had a very close friendship for years and a slip of tongue exposed his BDSM side. I feel that we are both really happy and excited about our new venture. Me being an amateur and him having about 8 years of experience has made this a very fun travel. I understand what you're saying about self control vs controlling someone else.

As you both stated, I think setting up times when BDSM is acceptable is a good idea. I'm still trying to learn all the little rules to play, but at the same time my normal life has its priorities as well. Thank you both for the input.