I am extremely submissive, but I have found myself doing this.

I am very manipulative and very good at getting my way in basically every situation. I have made it a point to bring this up and discuss this when going into a D/s situation. It helps the Dom to be more on guard and to push me a little further.

Sometimes I used to use reverse physcology to get what I wanted. I just realized that.. as much as I wanted to say... have an orgasm, I wanted him to be in complete control of me. So why was I going against that?

Its takes a lot of time,training, and self control.. but you must make it a mental note to change it. If you feel yourself doing it, speak up.

Say "Master, I am having feelings of control/dominance/topping (whatever) Please don't give into me... " or something like that. express exactly what you are feeling so that he can learn the signs of what you do when topping.

If you honestly feel you enjoy topping. Then perhaps you are switch? Maybe it is time to discuss this with a Master.

Anya