Kats and I have been married for some time. We have a very loving relationship. I can understand that sometimes it can be hard to reconcile BDSM with love and caring, but you must remember that you are sharing each others deepest wants and needs. What could be better!

Putting aside the sadist and their opposite, another person must feel very comforatable with you to share such a desire. This speaks of a very good relationship.

Barton