Quote Originally Posted by Pandora's Box
LTP, you're in a very transitional period. It's not going to be easy.

Whenever you're feeling weak, perhaps if you ask yourself the following questions it will help:

~ If I contact him, will he magically change?
~ Will my apology do any good? Would he be gracious and suddenly transform into the man I need?
~ Will he suddenly recognize my pain and respect it?
~ Do I really miss him or do I miss my hopes for us in the past?
~ Am I sincerely sorry or do I just want the past that never existed back?
~ Is he healthy for me?

...It's not a matter of getting past him, it's a matter of getting through this troubling time in your life.
Oh Pandora!....I really like that reply ....Good one!
~~nibbles~~