Hmm...I have a different address for Carroll & Graf and Blue Moon Books. Both are part of the Avalon Publishing Group, though Avalon is undergoing some changes and I'm not sure exactly what's going on - I think it's just that they've acquired some new imprints, not that they're letting anything go. The address I have is 161 William Street, 16th Floor, New York, NY 10038. You can also find more on their website, www.avalonpub.com.
This probably isn't right for you, Leo, but there's also Black Lace, which is part of Virgin Publishing. They're marketed as "erotica written by women for women." They don't get too, too hardcore, but they do have a lot of BDSM-themed books. I don't have the address, but their website is www.blacklace-books.co.uk.
You could also check out a recent edition of Literary Marketplace (LMP) for more information on different publishing houses. They're usually in the reference section of the bookstore/library.
If you need any help or insider tips (I'm a fiction editor) on preparing your submission, feel free to PM me. I don't know much about the erotica market, but I'm sure the rules are pretty much the same as at the mainstream houses.
Good luck and be persistent!