I'm so glad you are reading through the old threads and responding. There is much to be learned from these threads!

Quote Originally Posted by baldkate View Post
She is always fully in control.

You were saying, that you have upset or disappointed your Master. My Mistress is never upset or disappointed by me. She knows me and she knows what she can expect from me. So there are never surprises.

I just have to caution an using such absolutes as 'always' and 'never' as you do in your answer. It misleads people in thinkingthat a Dominant partner is somehow super-human.

A person I considered a mentor a long time ago used to say: If you don't want conflict or disappointment, go and work with flowers.
People disappoint. It doesn't mean they are bad. Just that they are human.

And although I respect my Doms Very deeply, I have to be honest and say I have disappointed them, and they, me.

Just as no-one is always in control... However, when punishing, control should be a minimum requirement.


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