Pregnancy .. a new challenge

[deigja]

I have been found by a new challenge in my life. I wonder how it will impact our sexual lifes. And I´m soooo happy!!!
Deigja

[just_ine]

Oh, what brilliant news! Congratulations to both of you, deigja!
The first 12 weeks is known as the 'Honeymoon phase' for a very good reason....*grins*

[lorem angelum]

Congratulations to you both!!! It is definitely an exciting and wonderful time, it can be a bit overwhelming too...*grin*. You will be surprised I am sure that it probably won't affect your sex lives as much as you think. I have read several articles on pregnancy and BDSM, when I first got interested...not that I ever planned on getting pregnant again. I believe information is knowledge and I am sort of a geek I like that *grin*. It sort of follows along the lines of exercise or any activity you do before pregnancy, you can still do many things your body has become accustomed to...just with limitations. I know you will both figure it out along the way, that's usually how it flows. I wish you both happiness and joy, it truly is a miracle and will change your lives......

[cutielady]

*Hugs you hard* congratulations!

[deigja]

thanx to all of you. I´m really excited! And you´re right with the honeymoonphase on my part, he on the other hand is almost overcautious right now... but as we know only a few days i hope it´ll get better.
deigja

[angelic.zest]

Good luck and congratulations!! I haven't been pregnant and played so I don't have much experience however I would say listen to your body as with most scenes listening to your body may make all the difference. Again Good luck. I do wish you an easy pregnancy mine was great and I wish it was like that for most women!!

[deigja]

Well, I don´t really feel like playing these days. There are too many areas that i don´t want to have touched.. my throat and whole frontside are a big no touch area even for really light touches... My nipples, which i usually love to have tortured are supersensitive and hurt most of the time anyway... even jeans are too confining and bondage is so out of the question for the time being... on the other hand.. sex all the time seems like a good idea...
;-)
I have heard that this can all pretty much change any day and I wonder what changes are to come ....

And despite all I love being pregnant as it will bring me the greatest joy and something tht I hoped for for some time now,

Deigja

[Miss_Red]

Congratulations! I agree with the others and just want to say...listen to your body. It is going through mega changes right now, and only you will know what is acceptable, and what is not. I wish you much happiness...

[jem]

Congratulations *smiles* wonderful news. Let your body tell you how and what it needs. You wont go wrong that way *smiles*

[deigja]

Halftime... and I have to say, I love beeing pregnant, feeling the first movements, having my baby denying me knowledge of its sex ;-S.., feeling all the changes..
Hubby and I are on the same wavelength now that he came to realize that I have not suddenly become a porcelan doll and he can still do with me as he wants as long as he watches out for the baby. My own sexual needs are not as demanding at the moment as a lot of other things distract me from it and I´m always happy to fulfil his needs whenever they arise even when I don´t feel the same urge. And the days that my needs resurface are always really good!
What feels weird though is how other people react to my being pregnant...
Those of you who have had babies: Do you know how everybody only talks to you about pregnancy and babies when they realize you´re pregnant? I feel kind of dehumanized, beeing reduced to my pregnancy. It seems to be the only topic allowed and if I want to talk to others about topics like work, relationship, hobbies... There suddenly comes a question like "does your pregnancy interfere with it?" and so we´re back on track. I gladly stick to those, these days, who interact with me every day and have gotten used to my baby belly and so get to talk about other things for perhaps half an hour before someone pops the next babyquestion or feels the need to educate me on how to equip the nursery or what to feed my baby ;-)
deigja

[just_ine]

Aaah... yes, the well-meaning but unsolicited advice from friends, family and random strangers. It gets worse when the baby is born, I promise.

For me the worst wasn't so much that the bump drew everyone's gaze, but those people (again, friend, family or random stranger) who would try to touch it, as if it isn't bad enough sharing your body with another tiny person!!

I am so happy to hear that everything is going so well!

Looking forward to the next update.
xxx