Learning to beg

[chantress]

i have no problems when begging for something that i really want from my Love, but i am finding it difficult to beg for things i do not necessarily want. right now things between us are over the phone only but that will be changing in just a couple of weeks and this is something He has asked of me before. my words get lost and i just do not know what to say. obviously please ________ goes a long way but aside from that i cant find words. Any advice...? i want to please Him in every way and if my begging Him makes Him pleased with me i will do so eagerly i just would like to add more to my "begging vocabulary".

[Mycockisyours]

You could say "I would really love it if you could _______ ...." or any phrase along those lines.

[katydidnt1]

I'm having this same problem. He constantly asks me questions and then wants me to repeat what he said to me.

Like he will say, "do I own your cunt?" and I'll say, "yea" and he'll say, "tell me", and I'll say, "u own my cunt."

But I think he wants more out of me and it just doesn't come naturally.

Could you say something like, "'this bad girls needs to be punished," or, "I don't want, X but I know I need it."

Katie

[ar1]

Instead of just asking for what you would like, how about you make it more descriptive by explaining how it would make you feel if he did such a such a thing to you. Tell him what your reaction would be, how much you would enjoy it and even why you would love him to do it so much. Just a suggestion :-)

[samm]

I think this is a great topic chantress.
And ami has got some good advice already.
Further I'm kinda missing the "Please, I would do anything to..." or "you can do anything to/with me if..."

[ar1]

And ami has got some good advice already.

Awe thanks! I needed to hear something along those lines right about now :-)

[naughtybitch]

how about please master use your slut for your pleasure

[Whisperz]

i very seriously applaud any sub who can readily beg, whether it be for what they want or what they don't want, lol...i have a lot of trouble in that area.

[denuseri]

It all depends on what exactly he is wanting you to beg for imho.

Is he doing anything to "teach" you how and what he wants you to beg?

[fucktoymel]

I have problems with this as well. I am fairly new to this lifestyle and begging goes against everything I was taught growing up. I was taught from a young age that being "good" would get me more than begging so begging feels very unnatural to me. I know my Master enjoys it but I never know what to say and I feel horrible begging for orgasms especially because I am afraid He will think that is all I want from him.

[ksst]

How about "Please Master, ese me, abuse me, do what you want to me. "
My Master wants me to repeat things to him that he tells me to say, and sometimes it's hard for me if it wasn't something I wanted, but I think of saying things I might not want to say as a way of submitting. I think that is the purpose anyway. I also get oddly tongue twisted in the heat of the moment trying to reverse the pronouns around and sometimes it comes out funny.

[OddCupcake]

Bumping this old thread....

A lot of times, a simple "Please, Master, let your slut X (usually orgasm)." is all it takes. For him and me, it's to remind me that I have forfeited the right to orgasm without permission and he loves making me beg for it and degrading myself a little in the process before giving in. A few times when we both know I have done something naughty (such as play without permission) or neglect household chores or whatnot, he will make me beg not to get to cum since he may be in the mood to play with me and not allow me something. So the begging ends up more like, "I want to cum, but I am not deserving so please continue to use your slut and not allow me to." - if I sound pathetic enough in this situation, about half the time he'll give in and let me orgasm for being willing to beg him not to allow it.