What is your fetish?

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With the knife play thread going on here, and its unexpeted popularity, as well as other threads about what people enjoy within the lifestyle. I searched the site to se if there was one about favorite fetishes. I couldn't find one. So I thought I would start a thread asking about it.

I know everyone has a fetish, and there are a zillion ways to enjoy bdsm, and even more fetishes that don't nessicarily involve BDSM. So if you feel bold enough to tell people what your fetish is. Please post it, I enjoy hearing about the obsure, learning more about people than I already knew.

To drive my point home about there being fetishes for all kinds. I thought I would add this picture. If it doesnt meet the picture requirements, mods please remove it.

So onto the point of the thread

My fetish is asphyxia. I enjoy the exchange of power when the submissive gives herself over to allowing you to control such a basic thing in her life. Her air. Huge turn on for me.

What is your fetish?

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[maddie]

I know this won't come as much of a shock to some (waves to Qmoq and Woogsbie), but I'd have to say shoes. The right pair of shoes can really put me in the proper mood for a few hours of play.

It's not especially kinky or anything, but there you have it.

[Dundee]

Overpowering and dominating mentally strong, powerful and beautiful woman and ordering them to do a variety dirty, slutty things for BOTH our pleasure.

Knowing that you have the ability to make such a woman willing to submit her body and mind using your voice and command, even when she might be a switch, is the most arousing feeling and its been that way since I first had the pleasure of meeting such a woman. Now, all others have to meet that standard. Bloody hard work. lol!
DM

[Radiance]

Hard ,anal loving ,sexy men that are truthful and honest thats my fetish

[nothing and nowhere]

i have a few fetishes, but the strongest one i'd have to say is probably for restrictive clothing - corsets in particular. it might be a bit of a strange one for a guy to enjoy and generally involves cross dressing, unless you have money to spend on specialist clothing such as arm-binders. the restriction that comes with being laced into clothing that might otherwise be perfectly normal to wear in public just totally gets me going.

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i have a few fetishes, but the strongest one i'd have to say is probably for restrictive clothing - corsets in particular. it might be a bit of a strange one for a guy to enjoy and generally involves cross dressing, unless you have money to spend on specialist clothing such as arm-binders. the restriction that comes with being laced into clothing that might otherwise be perfectly normal to wear in public just totally gets me going.

Do not feel strange by this. I personally know a fellow who enjoys this particular fetish a great deal. He is in no way feminine, just enjoyes the restrictive feel of a corset. I inteded this thread to introduce new fetishes others haven't heard of. Thanks for your addition.

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[submissivewife]

HAIR...pull my hair and WOW! Knife play is right up there too.

[MsUther]

Uniforms, me and/or him. Food play, not very advanced, but watching someone i fancy while they eat, preferably by using only their hands.... ooooh thats so nice. Having someone eat chocolate or fudge off me...lick, bite and suck me clean.
Watching men kiss or have sex. And shoes!

[Asia]

ID, submissivewife and MsUther
We seem to have a lot in common it seems... *winks*
ID: Your knife and weapon play thread has been great and it's good to know that it's something that quite a few of us enjoy *smiles*.

Apart from the usual (e.g. collars, cuffs, spanking, photos, Dom/sub uniform role-play, harsh, sexy voices, latex, exhibitionism, outdoors, etc) my biggest fetish is erotic asphyxiation, being held up against a wall with a firm hand around my neck (the favourite part of my body) while being man-handled and slapped, etc is such a sensational feeling. Also, being choked and strangled so I can hardly breath while I'll being fucked and/or being finger-fucked at the same time is too sublime to describe. I have passed out when reaching climax a few times as I was enjoying it so much I forget to use our 'get out' sign. My poor Man freaked out and refused to play for about erm.. a week *phew*

Also being slapped repeatedly and sharply on my facing when He is forcing his cock into my mouth when I'm on my knees, using my long hair as a leash to drag me back in.

And I apologise as this has become a shopping list but being spat at on my face before and during 'forced' sex and on my pussy and then watching Him rub it into my cunt and then fucking me.

And finally - I promise! - being fucked with a large icicle (easy to make, condom+water+freezer+running hot water on it before otherwise it sticks *ouch*). It's deliciously yummy. Multiple Orgasm City.

PS: Dundee *smiles*

[His_pita]

Hmm let's see. I love erotic asphyxiation very much. Just having his hand around my throat drives me wild.

I also totally get off on watching a man masturbate. It's the hand all slicked up with lube as it does what it knows best that is the fetish for me.

[frankee]

ID, submissivewife and MsUther
We seem to have a lot in common it seems... *winks*
ID: Your knife and weapon play thread has been great and it's good to know that it's something that quite a few of us enjoy *smiles*.

Apart from the usual (e.g. collars, cuffs, spanking, photos, Dom/sub uniform role-play, harsh, sexy voices, latex, exhibitionism, outdoors, etc) my biggest fetish is erotic asphyxiation, being held up against a wall with a firm hand around my neck (the favourite part of my body) while being man-handled and slapped, etc is such a sensational feeling. Also, being choked and strangled so I can hardly breath while I'll being fucked and/or being finger-fucked at the same time is too sublime to describe. I have passed out when reaching climax a few times as I was enjoying it so much I forget to use our 'get out' sign. My poor Man freaked out and refused to play for about erm.. a week *phew*

Also being slapped repeatedly and sharply on my facing when He is forcing his cock into my mouth when I'm on my knees, using my long hair as a leash to drag me back in.

And I apologise as this has become a shopping list but being spat at on my face before and during 'forced' sex and on my pussy and then watching Him rub it into my cunt and then fucking me.

And finally - I promise! - being fucked with a large icicle (easy to make, condom+water+freezer+running hot water on it before otherwise it sticks *ouch*). It's deliciously yummy. Multiple Orgasm City.

PS: Dundee *smiles*

umm...as usual, your post has left me a little breathless btw, nice avatar!

i'd have to say i've discovered by fetish for knife and blood play. Quite an unexpected turn on lol.
As for erotic asphyxiation... when my Mistress was kissing me, i felt Her hand around my neck pressing down a little and to my surprise i found it a real turn on. (getting wet just thinking about it) *blushing* So, i'm guessing it might be something i might enjoy
i love when Mistress has a handful of my hair when She's kissing me.


PS Great thread ID!

[MsUther]

Oh that post of yours, Asia. Its so hot to read.

[Dundee]

Oh that post of yours, Asia. Its so hot to read.

Isn't it just. Like both of your photos

[animanota]

mine has to be bondage and assplay. There is just something about having someone bound and helpless as you explore their most secret of places.

[Nikita]

mine has to be bondage and assplay. There is just something about having someone bound and helpless as you explore their most secret of places.

[Timberwolf]

"Having someone eat chocolate or fudge off me...lick, bite and suck me clean."

Come on over sometime.

[Timberwolf]

A lot of good fun stuff already mentioned, so I'll try not to go over ground that's already covered. Some other stuff I enjoy:

Leashes/collars: Very basic for most of us. It was the first "BDSM symbol" I really identified with and they do make me hot.

Pet play: Get down on all fours, crawl around, bark, eat out of a dish, give sexual favours. That's the ticket. I wouldn't want do do it absolutely full time but in doses it is great stuff.

Beastiality: Related though also quite different from the above. Not everyone's cup of tea and I'd enver pressure someone to get into it if it grossed them out. But since we've got knife play, fire play, and rape play all floating around, this is hardly a step any further into the extreme.

Subs who take their orders with a little bit of atitude once in a while.

A lot of different outfits/costumes.

Tons of other stuff too lol... some of it already mentioned some I just haven't thought of right now. If it feels good to you, do it!

[ChurchofVirus]

All my fetishes are on/recieved my partner. Goth/Punk grrls are my number one fetish. Gotta love them(I'm sort of one myself), boots and sexy shoes, corsets, fishnet, lingerie, stockings/knee socks, leather, latex, sexy clothes, assplay, collars and chains, dirty talking, piercings.. I think that covers most.

[M@ster{sg}]

mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....

second place, body harnesses, gotta love it ^o^

[dzire2pleeze]

[QUOTE=M@ster]mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....QUOTE]

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.

[Tojo]

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.[/QUOTE]


Oh my.

And hair- which will come as no surprise.
Wet hair, long hair, touching & smelling- & of course a handful of hair is just the thing to hold her head gently but firmly for a nice kiss.

Tojo

[Polish_girl]

[QUOTE=dzire2pleeze{M_R};89006]

mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....QUOTE]

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.

absolutely but that is a given so I guess you like strong intelligent men or maybe a man who is motivated enough to dedicate the time and effort it takes to take complete contrl

[cariad]

mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.

Could not agree with you more d2p, and indeed without having that; the rest is irrelevant.

[vampyres{ID}]

Knife play (Glad to know there is a term for it I have been involved in that for a while, I like a little more cutting though)
Bondage with ducktape, or polydac other cheap rope that gives rope burns (I know bondage tape exists I tried it and its not as fun) Blindfolds (Even more so when I don't know who all is going to be around) Public humilation (Love a guy who will yell across a crowded bar at me saying get over here whore or something equally insulting, or make me flash truckers and other passers by on the road, or being used as furniture or home decor in states of undress) Love roleplaying rapes or kidnappings (I like being the victim) And Anal or Oral (Prefer both to normal) And of course a bit of a blood fetish (I like seeing blood on myself, and watching someone drink it, I am obsessed with Vampires, don't want to be one, just want one to use me)

[mina]

Knife play (Glad to know there is a term for it I have been involved in that for a while, I like a little more cutting though)
Bondage with ducktape, or polydac other cheap rope that gives rope burns (I know bondage tape exists I tried it and its not as fun)
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or being used as furniture or home decor in states of undress) Love roleplaying rapes or kidnappings (I like being the victim) And Anal or Oral

*smiles* Seems we have a lot in common!

Ohh and I forgot about being used as furniture, I like that too!! It sounds boring but it's actually fun... I liked my back being used as a footrest while he was reading. It was definitely a bit of a struggle to stay in that position for so long, but there was visible evidence that I was enjoying it

[ces3]

Is it a fetish to be completely turned on just by the complete devotion of your slave? When my little whore gives herself to me, devoting every movement, every breath to me. Obeying even the most outrageous command. That is what gets me going. The two of us pleasuring each other to no end. Pleasing my slave is sometimes even more enjoyable than being pleased myself!!! Hows that for a fetish?

[sipgirl]

The slave thinks its a wonderful fetish Master!!Smiles wickedly and slinks away.

[Shaded]

Just figured I'd throw something here. Because I have a few fetishes, and while I'm not about to list all of them.. I do have a primary one. I'm a very mental person. (Call me crazy, its been done) but I enjoy the mental aspects of dominance, being able to own somebody mentally, the challenge of making them doubt themselves, and place their faith in me.. its probably one of the more intoxicating things for me.

That said, mentality of it all aside, I have and always will be an ass man, and the art of spanking will always be a huge turn on for me. As for the rest.. well, a couple have played with me here already, and know what makes me tick. To quote. "I Mindfuck people"

[SheepishJaina]

Figging has got to be my top fetish. I first learned of it here (bows to whomever started a thread on it a long while ago). Nothing gets me wetter than a good enema too. Perform an enema and then some figging play. mmmmmm You'll have a made a very turned on willing sub outta me.

While it may not be a fetish persay, being called a slut is something I crave whenever playing.




Oh... and I have a sheep fetish... in a purely innocent, childlike goofy way... but I'm sure some of you chat room folks have figured that out by now...

[_ID_]

Figging has got to be my top fetish.

This one is a new one on me. I must say, I will have to do some reading. Thanks for the introduction to it. Learning of fetishes I haven't heard of before is the very reason I started this thread. Thanks!

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