Gatekeeper
Banned

Age

67

About Gatekeeper

BDSM Role:

Dominant

Gender:

Male

Status:

Single

BDSM Interests:

oral, anal play, bondage, breast bondage, erotic sexual denial, spanking, fisting, impact play, TPE, wax play

A Bit About Yourself:

Gatekeeper - Who am I?

I am a 59 yr old proud retired Air Force veteran of 20 years. I have served My country with distinction and pride and have carried such qualities into My real life and that of which I attempt to portray within this “Virtual" communities that I find Myself in. As a dedicated Air Force member I have experienced much during My extensive career in the defense of our Country and that of others that stand with Us. I have witness both satisfying, rewarding events that I will always cherish and be able to carry with Me with pride until the end of My days. I also carry with Me those moments during My career that I and many others have witnessed and keep deep in the back of our minds for which we chose to not remember so fondly in that defense of you and others who live in this and other free countries enjoy. During My career, I was responsible for many subordinates under My command and took that responsibilities seriously, for the decisions I made were of those that meant carrying out My orders would either ensure the safety of and/or the possibly the lives of those serving under My control. Having that control meant I must stand strong within My beliefs of the difficult decisions I had made. I had earned the respect of many, to include My Superiors and those under My command alike. So as you can note, I have earned the respect I seek from others and give such said respect to those that come before Me, unless otherwise proven not worthy of such respect.
As for those who wish to know or question My experience as a Dominant/ Master, I wish to make it clear to you as to why I consider Myself as One who can stand tall as I carry such a “title” by anyone who may serve Me with such admiration and respect. As noted above, as One who served within a disciplined and demanding world during My military career, I expect the same within My personal life and expect the same from those I come across outside My military life; to include My past relationships in one form or another. I have always controlled the personnel and surroundings around My life for over 38 years now. During those years, I have had 3 real time relationships that I would consider falls within the realm of a BDSM Dom/sub lifestyle.
The first being that of My marriage of 20 yrs with My ex-wife and family. Although many would see it as a vanilla relationship, I had control of every aspect of said relationship; to include providing them with safety, guidance, security, teachings, and of course love. They afforded Me the respect that I desired for I was the One who provided them structure and discipline that would serve them well as they grow up and learn to live on their own. The marriage dissolved after 20 yrs after the children were grown and could understand as to why it did, and know it was not of their making. The relationship went cold over the last few years and only existed in order to take care and continue to grow the children as to where they could stand tall on their own two feet and do well and thrive on their own.
As for the other two Dom/submissive relationships; both were both enjoyable and troublesome in many ways.
The first lasted 4 yrs; it all started very well, a good foundation of trust and respect was established. The relationship developed first as a friendship, then as romantic lovers, and finally once the trust and respect was earned, the submissive willingly and freely gave Me her "gift" of submission as her Master. But as the last year came upon us, it became clear that we both sought more than what we had between us and decided to part way mutually.
The last Master/submissive relationship lasted for 3 yrs. This too started as One would have expected; eager to learn and get to know each other smooth sailing at first but ended in the breaking of this Master’s trust. Once that trust is lost in D/s relationship; it becomes very hard to regain through hours of discussion and personal reflection, but possible. However this submissive, once that trust was broken with Me, she didn’t try to regain that trust and we parted ways.
After those relationships, I took time away from the BDSM community to reflect on past relationships and to find within Myself and determine if there were things I could do or learn to further better Myself in any way. I reflected on those relationships to see if I could have handled matters differently that would prove beneficial and better improved on the longevity of any future relationship I may enter.
Of course I have had other short lived vanilla relationship/flings to pass the time between any Master/submissive relationships, but none were as fulfilling as that I had within the BDSM lifestyle. I hadn’t had a relationship for nearly 8 yrs since

Vanilla Interests:

Golf, bowling, cycling, camping, quiet nights at home with a lovely partner

Location:

Great Lakes Area, USA