collar, leashe, Restraint, punishment, Mental control, Dress control, Lingerie, light pain. blilndfolds, bondage, Intense experiences and so much more.....
A Bit About Yourself:
I'm definitely not a “player”, I seek someone that is genuine. Someone that is trustworthy and loyal as I am. If you enjoy a new partner every other week or month, forget about this profile. I'm not asking you to shack up. But I'm saying I want something with substance, trust, honesty and meaning, which takes time. If it develops into something more permanent, then so be it.
Apart from the obvious reason we are here, it woud be great to just do the things partners do on a regular basis for enjoyment.
I have a lot of experience, patience and understanding. I have a big heart and much love to show my partner. I'm a loving and caring person. I don't have a cruel or vindictive bone in my body, but I love spanking, slapping or strap or cane and and restraint and control. I love to play, have fun and explore my partners desires and my own, fully.
I have the life experience you would expect from a well travelled, knowledgeable and well read, 56 year old man. I have a lot to teach and love being a Mentor to my partner... the "go to", person, for her. I love to have a laugh.
I crave fun, passion and mental dexterity. My biggest love is, showing my partner something new, or seeing her grow and expand in her thinking of things, not just sexually or bdsm related, but in life as well and by default I grow and learn from from my partner as well.
I respect Women, I love Women and I think they are stronger than men in many, ways and on a much different level. I'm definitly not a sadistic or extreme Dom and you will be safe with me! :-) So if you enjoy being extremely humiliated and degraded and made to feel really bad about yourself and the like, I'm not for you, that stuff can damage!
I'm passionate about what's happenng round us on a global political level. I'm very aware. I can have long conversations on topics that affect us.
If you have a passion for a topic, an activity or a hobby, or job or talent or goal, that means something to you, then that would be great..
I'm an extroverted type, but I'm hesitant in putting a photo up here. Ask me for one though and I'll send some, for sure.
I am an openminded person, with varied bdsm interests. I'm willing to explore and chat about anything and am very open to a wide range of play topics and suggestions, so...
I can show you the way with patience, safety and care and start you on your bdsm journey, whatever your chosen path is. If you are a young Woman with zero experience, and looking for a mature guiding hand, please say hello. I will be more than happy to Mentor and guide you, lovingly, carefully and safely.
Or If you are someone with experience or even a lot of experience, then I can, for sure, expand on that with you and learn from you too and grow with you.
I am very comfortable if the stars align and it heads towards a more permanent relationship. What a joy it would be to meet my elusive soul mate. Someone to connect with on a daily basis. (The Dream!). If I find such a Woman, then all other bets are off and I will be content, full stop.
If you are very feminine and like to wear dresses and lingerie, then that would be a huge bonus, because one of my hard limits is crossdressing, you will not talk me into wearing your panties. :-)
A sense of humour and the ability to laugh at yourself, is a must. :-).
Vanilla Interests:
Beach, boating Web Site Design, parks, markets, technologies