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Nothing goes inside me until I've tasted it first!

Hey Everyone,

Well, I've been here over a year and I finally started a new thread. I would love for you to check it out and respond:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...for-Submission

So I was searching the Library, and I cannot for the life of me find this post I made before I took my hiatus. A lot of people seemed to think it was rather inclusive, and well written, so I'm posting it again. Thankfully I saved it.

What is BDSM?
This is another one of those questions that I've spent a lot of time trying to find a 'correct' answer for, when in fact, the only 'correct' answer is what you feel is correct.

Submissive, subordinate, and slave. ...

i've pondered much these last few weeks. Not always logically and not always coherently. And not always respectfully…but punishment ensued so we’ll close the door on THAT tyvm, hehe.

Communication, the key to the success of any relationship, has proven to be not as simple as i thought. There are so many levels of communication and it's not always comfortable. Not only that, communication has to be paired with understanding. If nothing else, i've learnt it's best to err on the ...

Aloha - Just a thought.

A Little something I dug out of my Journal I read in a book by Napoleon Hill. Enjoy and everyday pray "not for more riches, but for more wisdom with which to recognize, embrace and enjoy the great abundance of riches I already possess."

" The richest man in the world lives in Happy Valley.
He is rich in values that endure, in things he cannot lose.

Here is an inventory of his riches and how he acquired them: ...

When I look back over the past year I can’t help but smile like, well, like the kitty who got the cream *purr*. I met my Sir just over a year ago and could never have envisioned where our friendship would lead. Our journey began with playful banter and flirting, to sharing our life views and inspirations, to a realization our relationship was becoming more than either of us had bargained for.

You see…submission is a new path for me. A realm of thought and feeling which I had ...

Name change (for scene) : NO - 1
Name change (legal, permanant) : NO - NO
Nipple clamps : YES - 5
Nipple rings (piercings) : NO - 1
Nipple play/"torture" : NO - 5
Nipple weights : NO - 4
Oral/anal play (rimming) : NO - 4
Over-the-knee spanking : NO - 1
Orgasm denial : NO - 1
Orgasm control : NO - 1
Outdoor ...

first i want to be thankful to everyone that has been a real treat to meet on here, everyone has been real nice and approachable. i had recieved a kink list from foxy and took some time to go through it and fill it out. i wanted to share that because as a newb, i have only had some limited self-administered kinks. i have discovered some that i like, but this list is more of what riles up my engine and imagination and an exploration into where my limits are and where i'd like to push them too. ...

“Collar, sub” the simple command was one she knew well.

She reached for her hair, scooping her dark locks into her hand and pulling them to one side, exposing her neck to him. He bent over her…encircling her neck with a simple, black leather collar and fastening it. It was void of decoration, but for the buckle and a round, metal loop that dangled from her throat.

“Your hands” he ordered quietly…his commanding tone giving her goosebumps.

She raised ...

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