As a masochist that relies on pain to keep her grounded and she is very curious and would like to ask a couple questions please.
Does one have to be a Sadist to understand pain?
Does one have to be a Sadist to understand a masochist's need for pain especially in times where that need becomes overwhelming?
Can a Dominant that is not a Sadist handle the levels of pain that a masochist may need at times? And if not? what is the appropriate steps needed to seek out help to take care of these needs?
Can a Dominant that is not a Sadist recognize the ques that there is a need building for more pain if the submissive does not always speak of this need?
As a masochist submissive seeking out a Dominant? Would you advise her to seek out specifically a Sadist Dominant due to the levels of pain she may need at times? If not? what questions would you suggest she ask a Dominant that is not a Sadist to ensure that there is no misunderstandings of future needs that may or may not complicate the relationship?