So, I'm somewhat struggling with this!

I have always wanted to keep my vanilla life separate from my BDSM life. I feel that they are two different worlds. I do not have the live in lifestyle, but there is definitely a love and Passion in my relationship with my Master. I am not into public humiliation or BDSM being pulled into my everyday activities. Lately, my Master has been enforcing his role by randomly throwing commands at me. I do not want to be a "brat" but I struggle with following commands when I am live the "normal" life.

I brought this up with my Master and even he admitted that he was struggling with Master VS Lover.

Any suggestions? I know we will have to find a happy balance. I'm just curious as to how others feel about this. Thank you for any feedback.