First let me state that the person and the pm does not come from this site....

So I received a pm from someone and I need some advise as to whether I should reply to the guy/ignore/ or chill the hell out.... Am I over reacting?... Is what he's asking for acceptable?? I'm doubting myself.. So I'd like some opinions please... Open to Doms as well...
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Daytime (lunch) meeting at The Priory in Kent, say at a suited time, I will be waiting for in the chapel on the left as one stands facing the outside seating area of the piazza......

(You) will walk in, light a candle and then go and gesture at the large gothic statue, stand at alter facing me.....

If (you) like what you see infront of (you) I would like (you) to then walk to the door, remove (your) knickers and place them on a the table, then stand and wait outside. I will stand up and pocket (your) knickers and join (you) outside - thats the initial foundation of acceptance, we will then walk, talking as we go for a friendly coffee to arrange our next 'official' meeting/date.

This will all be done in just one hour....
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My reply...if I send....

Ummm.... As lovey as all that sound ~ I don't know you!! As hot as that reads; I'd love to do that with someone I knew well ~ but I don't know you!! Someone not too long ago gave me some damn sound advice and I'm 100% positive he won't mind me quoting him. He told me "it is Not a game for children. Do NOT drop your common sense with your clothes, so to speak. 'Submissive' does not mean 'doormat'- It means you make an informed decision to willingly surrender control of your person to another person's will."

So this then begs a least one question....how can I willingly surrender my control to a complete stranger? Ummm.....

Ok let's leave that for the moment and we'll tackle another other glaring obvious question... In a normal "vanilla" relationship you would at least offer to pay for a coffee before you wanted to get my knickers off. Why just because I'm kinky or submissive in bed does this mean I will meet a complete stranger, practically hand him my knickers and only then go for a friendly coffee?

I've absolutely no idea who you are, what you look like, and have exchanged pm's with you for all of 3 days... There's no way I'd be able to tell a friend I was meeting you and for what purposes... Because any 'friend' of mine would lock me up or smack me upside the head for "dropping my common sense with my clothes".

I know absolutely nothing about you and I do mean nothing... you offer no photographs and no references..... But at least it'll all be done in an hour!?!