I'm sure this must be covered somewhere, but I don't know under what to search.
Do you use any systems of checks and balances when evaluating a potential Dom? I want to be sure I'm being careful. Like many of you, I'm very trusting by nature, and having had so many partners, I'm a little paranoid/jaded about getting hurt again.
Being on the forums, seeing some of the genuine caring Dom/sub relationships out there, has given me hope, just... where and how to begin looking?
Thank you much,
Fauna