OK ... so I have a bit of problem. It's a little hard to explain, and probably a great deal daft, but dammit we need content so here goes!

I love being submissive to the right person, but I often have trouble letting my guard down in. I'm always sure I come off as brash and loud and silly, which is true enough, but I suspect it's just a bit off-putting to Dommes. I don't mean that I act bratty or thoughtlessly mind you, just that I don't feel like I'm acting ... you know...subby! And until recently I didn't post much in the forums because somehow when it comes to posting a message here, I feel like whatever I was trying to say gets mangled somewhere between my brain and fingers.

Anyone else have this problem?