First I have used as a beginning point a list done by someone else, and I have altered and tweaked it to be better, I think.
This is intended to assist in negotiations and to show if the 2 of you are compatible. I have alter the list so that one is for the Dominate and the other is for the submissive though each cover the same issues.
I would request that once you take this please send me or post here a copy of it so that I can improve upon it. I will also give you my opinion of how you fit into the life from your responses.
Russell