Jenny I hope you're still reading this.

Giving up control is one thing, but before you allow a person to Dom or Domme you, you make sure you trust that person. Don't allow just anyone to tie you up if you don't trust Him or Her. Establish boundaries.

BDSM can be a beautiful experience and a lot of fun. So if you have submissive feelings, explore them. Hopefully, you will find a Dom or Domme who will give you what you want..

Good Luck!