I switch with a play partner and the first time i caned him was a free-ing experience for me. Being caned is his fetish and the more extreme the better. It was difficult for me to really let go and just enjoy the interplay that happens when a play is good...

But the moment that apprehension disappeared when we both had that time in caning him and we were amost breathing together ...we werent talking... Just experiencing what I often think of as the magic that happens during a power exchange.