Hey

I am a complete learner with regards to this lifestyle at this point and have an annoying personality trait of over thinking and over analysing everything.

One of the concepts I have been struggling with in theory is how I could feel loved and respected as a sub, when much of what I could/will be experiencing on the surface seems anything but. Reading this 'bill of rights' has been very comforting and answered many of the basic concepts/questions that have been flying around my brain.

I teach many students during my day job and at the start of every new year I never fail to be amazed at some of the most basic concepts that my students seem to struggle with, stuff that is second nature to me now, and now I know how they feel.

I think this sort of 'intro to bdsm' basic stuff has great value to total beginners like myself, but I can totally see how someone with a much greater depth of understanding and experience would find little or no value in such a thing.

Horses for courses I guess.