I'm trying. But everything I say, no matter how I intend it, seems to make him feel like I'm trying to make him feel guilty, which is so not the case. Really, where in, "I love you and miss you" is the guilt trip? I just want him to know I care, and that I am there for him. I think there is something more; I just wish he would share his feelings with me. If it's over, tell me and let me grieve, then start healing. If not, tell me what the new limits are. In his old job, we would talk on the phone for 6, 8 hours at a time. And we talked everyday. Now, I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks. I'm holding on, though, at least until the new term starts for him. If I haven't had a response by then, I guess I will have to give up.
Thanks, y'all for listening.