Your doctors can not adequately treat you without a full knowledge of what you're getting up to. You wouldn't go to a job interview without a resume, would you? Of course not. Same thing as going to your doctors without giving them the complete truth about your habits. The urethra is not meant to be a point of entry and can be easily damaged by even the slightest movement in the wrong direction. You need to be very honest with your care providers about this. Most likely they will use a scope to go up in there and see if there is any physical damage or signs of other types of infection (like yeast. It's not bacterial, and not viral, so they seldom test for yeast infections in men, but as you were using toys that had not been sterilized, it's a very real possibility that could be what you have).