I actually came to this site to explore being a Switch. It didn't take long for me to realize a label isn't necessary, unless ... you choose to live by it. Just as having sex with a member of the same sex doesn't necessarily make you a gay; the desire to top someone or even to Domme,doesn't mean I need to assume the label of a switch.

My nature is submissive, I function and respond well in that role. It doesn't mean I can't have a boytoy, after all I've yet to meet a Dom who will allow me to have my way with him. That is the desire I would like to quench. That's my conclusion. I understand the preference of being a switch for those who chose to live by it. For me ~ I just need a mischievous outlet, occasionally.