Only the uninformed feel that any male can dominate. I for one hear from quite a few women that crave to crawl and kneel be restrained but their husbands just aren't up to it. I am amazed each time but then some are just programmed as a vanilla feeling that the kink is just wrong.

Gor says that men are Doms and woman are subs by and large and that too is wrong. I was married to a natural Domme that served me for a long time and quite happily but in the end when we were going through a huge crisis she could not contain her Domme any longer and that ended up killing us.

Be who you are and be proud of it whether that is Dominant, submissive or even vanilla. Only when you feel that you aren't walking in the right shoes should you reassess and work on changing.