Quote Originally Posted by Eponine
With this statement, I agree as well. At times, it is confusing though- as sometimes doms (and even other subs) have the attitude that a submissive or slave should be grateful for anything/ anyone, that we should have no standards. I find that infuriating because I _will_ not submit to any man I deem unworthy. And no one should settle...
I've come across my share of this thinking and I might just like it less then you. For me, the submission is not about lowering yourself below others, but about raising your dom above you. I'm extremely strong-willed and absolutely will not give in to someone that I don't see something special in.

Just thought I'd share that thought since I saw the opportunity. Anyway, that's good base-test even if it isn't perfect.