how to humiliate female sub?

[thedarkstatic]

I'm looking for some ideas to humiliate my female sub most of the stuff out there is for male subs does anyone have any ideas?

[canadapiratem]

I Believe there's a thread about humiliation in the erotic photo's section http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=15772 <=link

[puppygirl]

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[denuseri]

we actually have had several threads on the subject both boys and girls varities

it depends of course on your current limits between you two

on the lighter side

having her go to a grocer and purchase a cucumber or a corn on the cobb and nothing else but some ky jelly for lubricant was a task i found to be adorably erotic and humiliating (i know from personal experience)

one that envolved several people was when a group of my owners buddies were in town, dressed for the clubs we pulled into a convience store in two different vehicals, everyone got out and milled in the parking lot while little ole me (looking one step away from a hooker) had to go inside in plain view while all the guys catcalled etc, and purchase two whole boxes of condums ,,,,it was especially deliciously humiliating

variations abound on the shopping trip humiliation tasks of course, the only limits are you and her's imajination,

you may even want to plumb her mind by having her write down like twenty ideas she is willing to try someday, then shelfing them for a while and modifiying them at your convience and later after she thinks nothing is coming introduce one of them as a task

[Hime]

How about going out to dinner with her wearing a skirt, and having her go to the restroom, remove her panties and put them in her purse? That's a classic.

Or if you have a friend who is interested or involved in the lifestyle, you can take things a bit further by having her perform tasks for you in front of the friend.

of course, it all depends on both of your limits.

[MasochisticAngel]

what you should do is fuck her tothe point were she has cum dripping down her legs and on her face and hair.
then make her go out in public wearing a short short skirt
then sit back and watch.

[sissymaid]

give her a enema and plug her butt with a buttplug to hold the water in.then go out for a drive with her somewere and then have her empty her arse outside. could do it infront of people in a very public place but i wouldnt recoment that unless you want to be arrested lol.i would do it somewere quiet but with chance of passersby.

[sissymaid]

or what about locking a nappy on her and giving her some laxatives and then sending her out shopping or somthing.

[Ozme52]

Shopping rocks.

Elsewhere I've suggested creating a shopping list of bottom shelf items... and send your sub out in a short skirt, no panties, and not allowed to bend her knees.

A shopping list of sexual items, such as lube, and required to ask a male clerk his opinion of the various choices.

Shoe shopping in a short skirt, again pantiless of course.

Go lingerie shopping and insist she model the choices for you... out where she can be observed... even better if you can arrange someplace classy... and have the salesperson "assist" her making quick changes so you can compare colors... without having to wait while she would otherwise disappear into a dressing room.

Go furniture shopping... like for a dining room table... and have her test the height by leaning over the table... or over the back of a couch...

[hopperboo]

one that envolved several people was when a group of my owners buddies were in town, dressed for the clubs we pulled into a convience store in two different vehicals, everyone got out and milled in the parking lot while little ole me (looking one step away from a hooker) had to go inside in plain view while all the guys catcalled etc, and purchase two whole boxes of condums ,,,,it was especially deliciously humiliating

A shopping list of sexual items, such as lube, and required to ask a male clerk his opinion of the various choices.

Go furniture shopping... like for a dining room table... and have her test the height by leaning over the table... or over the back of a couch...

Those are hot idea's!

[LordMarco85]

...stick her some needles under her toenails. Very painful *gg*

Is any (female) sub here who would like this?

Marco

[denuseri]

...stick her some needles under her toenails. Very painful *gg*

Is any (female) sub here who would like this?

Marco

This has everything to do with pain and nothing to do with humiliation.

I dont know if anyone here would like that paticular torture. I for one would not.

[Oak]

This has everything to do with pain and nothing to do with humiliation.

I dont know if anyone here would like that paticular torture. I for one would not.

I wouldn't even like doing it

[Ozme52]

...stick her some needles under her toenails. Very painful *gg*

Is any (female) sub here who would like this?

Marco

Clearly off topic. Humiliation is a mind game...

[TheDeSade]

My opinion is the very first place to start is to get inside your submissives head. Until you know him/her and understand well what makes the submissive tick, what it is that he or she fears or really finds humiliating, can you begin to formulate tasks which will actually push those psychological buttons that bring true humiliation and discomfort.

[star_sparkle]

^
What he said

[Oak]

We once went out to buy a new riding crop and did of course go to a quite fine "horse" stuff shop and selected a very nice one. I made her bend over, lifted up her skirt- she's pantiless of course and gave just one stroke, asked if it's good, which it was turned to the very surprised, her jaw was on the floor, cashier, and bought it.
Make a nice breast bondage and let her wear a tanktop or similar that shows it.
Slutty or very misplaced clothes or all to young for her age.
Lead her around in a collar and a leash, maybe combined with the hands cuffed together.
Using a remote controlled dildo and enjoy her reactions when you turn it on.
Using butt- plug and dildo at the same time. Gives a very nice gait.
Else just use your imagination and remember to stay inside the subs limitations.

[FatherTimejr]

I agree with needing to understand and commmunicate to figure out whats best but... couple ideas come to mind...

Start with, and I dont know much about rope bondage but its something im learning about, could do a set where you bind her up in some while not incredibly uncomfortable, maybe so when she moves a knott rubs her clit, or squeezes her breasts, and have her put that under a dress and go out to dinner at some fairly nice resteraunt. While at the same time perhaps have a vibe egg in her ass or pussy with remote you control.

Also could get her like a (baby) bottle to have her drink out of while in public.

make her wear a vibrating clit clip/ring which you have control of.

(as you can tel alot of mine are -in public- things)

have her carry a paddle in her purse, and if she does something bad, naughty, what not, you could have her bend over and you give her a swift paddeling whereever you are.

for something around the house, make her wear really kinky bondage lingerie, ones that expose her breasts, or crotch area, maybe frilly type maid set with that whenever shes around the house, and only let her put on a see through nighty to answer the door.

Some ideas, really though alot of its in her mind, and you need to delve into that. I think someone else posted the idea of making her write up a list to give to you, thats a good idea. Hope some of my ideas might come in handy!

FTjr

[DarkHorseSr]

Have her drink several large glasses of water over a short time. Don't let her use the bathroom. Dress her in short tight shorts take her to the mall shopping still not letting her relieve herself. While at the mall have her drink more water, ect. After a time you can guess what will happen. When she does wet herself make her still walk around the mall shopping.

[hopperboo]

When she does wet herself make her still walk around the mall shopping.

That seems a little...TMI. Not everyone in public wants to "play" this too.

[LordMarco85]

Well, sorry, misread the title. English isn't my mothers speak so I'm sorry I know it's a special fetish with those needles Oh dear, I'm missing InSex so much

Greetings

[DesertDom]

We had a vibrator with a wireless remote control that was very nice. Would go to a restaurant or a shopping mall and turn it on at opportune times. It was loud enough for the server to hear a low hum and always wonder about the noise. If asked, my girl was required to answer truthfully and in detail about what the noise was and what it was doing.

She always loved that, no matter how much she hated it.

[flying66]

wow you guys are all about the public humiliation thing >.> I'd worry about running into my boss or potential employer or being arrested for public indecency.
well that's just me anyways lol

[E.C. Holland]

A very safe public humiliation is making the slave ask for specific items at an adult bookstore. Make her introduce herself and say that her master sent her, and then have her ask specific questions about butt plugs, etc. For fun you can make her ask (while keeping a straight face) about their return policies on sex toys.

Much less of a threat of involving people who'd rather not be exposed to your perversions, since the clerks at most porno shops have seen it all.

[piper8189]

A very safe public humiliation is making the slave ask for specific items at an adult bookstore. Make her introduce herself and say that her master sent her, and then have her ask specific questions about butt plugs, etc. For fun you can make her ask (while keeping a straight face) about their return policies on sex toys.

Much less of a threat of involving people who'd rather not be exposed to your perversions, since the clerks at most porno shops have seen it all.

i'm new to all of this and my Master just did this one to me today...very humiliating for new subs...trust me

[thepast]

Ok folks... Friendly reminder from your neighborhood admin...

The point of this thread is to solicit humiliation tasks & the like for a female sub. That includes ALL things related to humiliation--public, private, physical, verbal, etc. Just because YOU don't consider something humiliation, or YOU don't agree with it, doesn't mean it isn't "fine." As always, YOUR opinion is yours & yours alone... everyone else is entitled to theirs!

Please refrain from making snide or snarky comments about other peoples' ideas; if you don't like them, you don't have to use them!

[subserviant]

teke yr sub to a restaurant find a table thats kind of out of the way make her take off her bra while still having her top on have her lay it on the tablethen have her expose her breast to u then have her remove her panties ,lay them on the table have her stand lifting her skirt to her waist ,only at the front so u can see but not others

[star_sparkle]

just my own private humiliation task. Being made to cum on your food and then to eat it off the floor.

[sirbootnocka]

This one is for those privately minded: Make her into a piece of furniture, like have her sit on a big vibe, in the middle of the room. Make sure that it's one of those days that something you really like is playing on tv. Then have her hold a tray of your favorite snacks. Then pay her no attention other than to eat your snacks.

[sirbootnocka]

You should also blindfold her so that she isn't watching tv as well.