Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[Rabbit1]

so that any questions can be addressed to you by name ---if you like to include a brief history in you inrtoduction please do so.

[learningtopleez]

Hi all,

I'm learningtopleez or LTP for short! I consider myself a submissive and have had two r/l Doms....sorta....I say sorta, cause the first one wasn't all that much of a Dom. The second one most of you have read about here. He and I are no longer a D/s couple...we are just friends now.

So I am a submissive, but for the time being, have decided to use this time to learn more about D/s, and BDSM in general. According to Max...the last Dom, I did learn how to pleez , so now I just await the knowledge of all forum members, and will be happy to answer any and all questions to the best of my ability!

[Katmandu]

Top o' the mornin' to ya'll! I am katmandu. I've been a sub for 2 years, exclusively with the same Dom. It's been a very rocky road, but we have both done research extensively, questioned many, more experienced people, along the way, and practiced what we've learned with others (well, He has, I have yet to) outside our primary relationship.

I hope I can help answer questions satisfactorily that anyone has!

[baldkate]

What about a Mistress? I have a Mistress and she takes good care of her girl. She spanks me every day and made a better girl out of me.

[phragmites]

Hello, I'm phragmites, pronouced frag-my-tees (it's a type of reed). I was in a Mastery/submission relationship in the past, and am now married to a wonderful man who is, however, not versed in BDSM. We're both learning together in some senses, as my training was incomplete due to the tragic loss of my first Master (to Lou Gherig's disease). Because of my rather atypical route into the scene I'm able to answer questions about the philsophy of submission, and likely to be looking for answers in the B/D and S/M categories.

[shdowrnnr]

Greetings everyone

I'm shdowrnnr aka shadowrunner. A sub stuck in a vanilla marriage. My hubby has tried to be a dom but just isn't dominating enough. He's trying though.

[mali]

Hey, I'm new here....

I'm mali, i've been a a sub for as long as I can remember really.... but only started practicing it a few years ago. I've had a Master in the past, and I now am very happily living with my Mistress
I'll answer all questions as best I can!

[Nikita]

I'm Nikita,

Horrors! I've been turned into an e slut. I switch, but some would say I'm assertive with a strong submissive streak. And, I will switch with only ONE special person.

Mostly, I'm and 80-20, which means I lean towards 80% sub, 20% domme.

Glad to have finally admitted what I've written about in stories.

Haven't you figured it out yet? (looks down and blushes deeply)

[Jim]

here is a silly question for you .. i would like my wife to get her nipples pierced ..
but she is reluctant to do so .. she is a very good sub in many ways .. and i would rather enjoy seeing her enhance her breasts with the piercing ..
do you have any thoughts of why she would be reluctant to do so ..
thanks ..

[Alex Bragi]

.. i would like my wife to get her nipples pierced ..
but she is reluctant to do so ...

... do you have any thoughts of why she would be reluctant to do so ..
thanks ..

Jim, a male friend of mine has his left nipple pierced. The reason both aren't done is that, in his own words, "It hurt so fucking much I decided one was enough." I agree with Maddie—pain isn't for everyone. Have you considered those fake ones?

[velvet_nectarine]

Hello everyone! I'm a submissive and always have been, but i only put words to my desires about eight months ago. I recently ended a vanilla relationship and am single, greatly enjoying it, and learning as much as i possibly can about BDSM. I generally know what i like and what i want, but i'm not yet sure what my limits are. I should be transferring to a 4-year college close to a large city (really, any city will do ) by next fall, so i'm hoping once i do i'll be able to actually make contact with other people who are into this lifestyle.

[submissivewife]

Hi everyone! I am a submissive and I love it. (Why do I feel like I am in group therapy?)

I love submitting to my Dominates. I have a Sir and a Master. My Master is strictly online and my Sir is online as well with occasional r/t involvement. I love serving and learning more about myself through my submission. I have found that through my slavery to my Master I am free. I have been into this lifestyle now for only a year (yes a rookie) and don't intend to stop any time soon or at all. I AM ADDICTED to being submissive.

Nikita, I knew it girlie! I knew you had to be a switch a domme and a cum slut sister!

subwife

[subdude05]

Hi, My name is Subdude05, I am english and an artist, im 20 and have enjoyed bdsm before i knew what it was, dreaming of it since i was about 13 and doing it at about 16 with my girlfriend/part time misstress of 4 and a half years. Although i enjoy the sceane more than she does, she has started to have more fun and i think shes finding her dominant side. I enjoy, tight bondage, light to medium cbt, humiliation play, and love rubber and pvc (but prefer rubber), we have quite a few toys in the form of a few whips, 5 gags, 2 rubber hoods and some restraints of various sizes and uses, oh and countless dildos, vibrators, beads and plugs of many sizes and shapes thanks of my girlfriend. when im not in bdsm i enjoy serching fo it on the net, rock music and its many forms and drawing/painting. Cheak out the cartoon threas in role play, its gonna be great if we get more people and some playing going on

[kindom]

hi, just wanted to know more about you.

[Devilkisses]

Hi everyone, I'm devilkisses. I've been submissive for as long as I can remember but have only been involved in it (knowing what I was doing) for the last year with my bf turned Dom. I'm a newbie just loving the experiences. I'm still learning a lot about the lifestyle and working on learning more about myself and Him, so I don't know how much help I'll be but please feel free to ask - I'll tell you exactly what I think.

Ummm, I'm not sure what else to say, I'll probabley be asking more questions then answering them but I guess in this lifestyle you never stop learning.

Hope to hear more about all of you, I won't go on and on about myself as I've introduced myself in the introduction thread.


I think these new "Ask a sub/Dom/Switch" threads are a great idea for the knowledge base!

[jeffy]

hey have u please me yet jffvnny@yahoo.ca

[jeffy]

hey have u please me yet jffvnny@yahoo.ca southrn ontario

[slaveinge]

Respectful greets to all Masters and Mistresses-bows-
My name is inge and I am a worthless sluttish slave.
I am a masochist. So I am thankful for abuse, degradation and humiliation in all ways by sadistic Masters and Mistresses. I`m bi. Yes I`m an old filthy slutslave, my ugly udders are deformed from wearing bondage round them very often and my holes are stretched from using big toys by myself and by others. My nipples and my clit are stretched from heavy rings, which are closed so I cannot remove they. I have learned to serve animals to. Sorry, I dont look for real, here I get what I need, but the time between the sessions is too long so I`m looking for online relationship. Thank you

[His_pita]

Hi I’m Pita. My Dom gave me the name when we first met online exactly 9 months ago today. It means “Pain in the ass” which I can be. But, good for me my Sir loves a challenge and I like to give him what he wants.

Like I said, we met online and began talking about how I have always known I was a submissive, but I didn’t have any knowledge of the world of D/s so I started reading everything I could get my hands on and it was a like a lightening bolt hitting me. I finally knew what I was and what I wanted.

My Dom and I fell in love quickly and began making plans to be together in real life. We we’re both in unhappy marriages and he has since gotten his divorce and I’m in the process of mine. Last week my Sir moved away from his home and went to a new state and to the apartment he rented for us. He is at this moment buying furniture and getting the place ready for when I can be with him hopefully in a month from now.

We are very excited to begin our life of 24/7 D/s. We plan to have a contract that we have already wrote and I will receive my collar when we sign the contract once were together. After we have been together for a year, we will have a collaring ceremony, I will get a new permanent collar and him a ring that will signify his complete ownership of me and our promise to be together forever.

My Joe is everything to me and my only real wish in life is to be the best submissive possible for him. He is my Sir and he is my Daddy. Mostly though he is the love of my life and I am so thankful that in this big, crazy world we have found each other.

[boby_bdsm]

Wow you are great with the accessories

[orchid]

hello,

i am orchid and i have been submissive since before i knew what it meant. i am married to my Husband and now Master, for what will be 10 years this June. we have only been explornig this lifestyle for about 2 years now and still have plenty of learning to do.

i love being dominated by Him. i work full time outside of our home, as does He, and i welcome the end of the work day, when i can drop the facade of being in control in my executive career.

i love being tied up and ravished and recently have discovered the joy of pleasure spankings, having only been spanked in discipline in the past. this year, we have promised each other to branch out and try even more things. as always, i will take His lead and am willing to try anything once. i am honoured to be His slut.

[Warhawk]

I am WarHawk, 21yrs old, in Michigan, USA. I have been a sub/slave for 2 years with my girlfriend, but need a real mistress so I can serve on the next level. I love pain, CBT, ropes, cuffs, anal play, practically anything except needles, blood, and feet. Love eating cum, love having orgasms taken from me repeatedly without consent leaving my body as just a machine for my mistress feeling my cock pulse, explode, and grow in her special spot. I am willing to try new things once grounds are set. Love suspension, humiliation, wax play. Looking for a mistress to meet and be trained to the next level!

[goalt]

I'm goalt, 22 year old lesbian sub/slave in the USA. I just recently became a full 24/7 slave to my wonderful Mistress. Before that, though, we had played nearly 24/7.

[fireandice]

My Dom will not let me use the submissive i instead of I. He demands I use proper grammar, so I will, and I am most proud of it I respect him with all my being-- he knows me better than I know myself sometimes-- most of the time, actually. It's taken me quite awhile to realize that I've been submissive for most of my life. However, now that I look back on it, I realize that it's true. I have always sought to please, to make others happy and content. But now that I've found someone worthy of this, it makes it all the more worthwhile. I love my Master more than I ever thought I was capable of. Mostly, I think it's because he has earned it. I respect him, I admire him, and I learn from him.

It took me a long time to get here, but if anyone wants any advice, I'd be more than happy to help. Being a submissive can be more than rewarding depending on the individuals involved.

-R

[lozzy]

Hi, i'm lozzy. i'm an 18 year old subbie. Atm, i don't have a Dom, but i have in the past. Not really sure what else to put here, sorry.

[Rhabbi]

Hi, i'm lozzy. i'm an 18 year old subbie. Atm, i don't have a Dom, but i have in the past. Not really sure what else to put here, sorry.

Welcome lozzy, glad to meet you.

[sweetlytormented1]

Hi I am sweetlytormented1...litually lol...
I have been in the scene for 2 1/2 years,though the feelings have been there since I was a child. I have been with my master for 17 mths & my once vanilla husband for 14 yrs,he has now got his own sub.

I love being spanked hard the harder the better & if restrained that makes it even more intense 'Mmmmm!!!'

I also enjoy writing my blog & going to fetish clubs & parties.

[liesbeth]

Hi i am liesbeth, a 22 year old slave.

I live in the Netherlands and as soon as i graduate i will move to the UK to be closer to Master who lives in London and to study more there.

Master and i are together since September 2005. In fact i am stil a newbie, i don't have much experience but i learn more and more every time in am with him. At the moment i really want to learn more about serving Master. Not only in a sexual way, but more with rituals and making his life more pleasant.

love
Liesbeth

[gloombunny]

Hi; I'm Natalie. I used to have more switchish tendencies, but it seems like for a while now I've been almost exclusively a sub. Or a would-be sub, anyway - I have basically no experience in subbing at all, to my endless discontent.

As much as I would like to have a dom* to call my very own, it doesn't seem likely to happen any time soon - I can't even satisfactorily explain my own needs to myself, let alone to anyone else, other than a vague certainty that most of what I read about isn't quite right for me. Also I tend to write really convoluted and lame sentences when I try to describe my problems, so I think I'd better stop now before I get in any deeper.



* By which I mean a dominant person of either gender. I can't bring myself to use "domme" - there's no "e" in "dominatrix", dammit!

[Primus_Pilus]

By which I mean a dominant person of either gender. I can't bring myself to use "domme" - there's no "e" in "dominatrix", dammit![/size]

Natalie, it's a french thing. Since Dominatrix is just the translation of "dominatrice" from french and the french have a tendency to gener specify things, like lamp to "la lampe", etc... Anyways, since the Marquis De Sade is the grandfather to most of our modernday BDSM literature (or at least the perveyor of the goods to our knowledge), french was the mechanism in which much of the terminology was derived. Hence, Dom/me.

Adieu!

~Primus