hellman
Banned

About hellman

BDSM Role:

switch

Gender:

male

Status:

Dom and owned

A Bit About Yourself:

I'm still new to bdsm life but discovering more about my sub/Dom sides all the time. I'm a libra so I aim to be charming, perceptive, diplomatic, pleasant and refined so please be nice as I don't like rudeness.Also, I have dyslexia so please be patient with me. I'm here to socialise, not be criticized thanks!

I have been in the scene and living the life almost full time now for about a year, as a submissive. This is a part of me that I love, but there is another side to me that has a need to be dominant. Although I have not explored this much, last year I learnt a lesson in my life which showed me that you should not bottle things up and dismiss them if they are a part of you, instead you should deal with them and face your feelings.

The Dom part of Me is not going to beat you with no mercy until you do as your told, thats not My cup of coffee, but don't be thinking I'M soft as you will be way off in your judgement, I just think there are better ways to do things.

Having experienced the submissive side I also feel that I can relate to a submissive more, I have felt what I want more of, and how it feels when someone goes over the top with punishment, therefore as a Dom I feel that I will relate more to subs under my care.

I am strong willed and will do what I set out to do, I will take the submissive along with me and respect all safewords.

Contact me if you would like to find out more, I am a complex character, but feel I have a lot to offer the scene in the role of a Dom and as a sub.

i have seen this quiz thing on lots of FL pages so i had a go on it too and this is what i got

Bondage 100%
Submissive 89%
Switch 86%
Sadist 79%
Experimental 79%
Dominant 71%
Degradation 64%
Masochist 64%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 43%
Vanilla 18%

Please don't add me if we haven't chatted first. A PM would be appreciated! I like making new mates but I'm not here to just have a lot of peoples pics on my wall. If you add me, please be ready to chat some times :)

I love to be tied up so if you are good at that, please mail me ;)

My life outside, I like manga and online games. I've come to Norfolk from Essex so don't know many people here. I have lived here 4 years and plan to attend Norwich Munch more often!

The 10 Kink Commandments:

1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.
2. We must always be respectful of our partner’s safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind.
4. We must always be polite and ask questions.
5. We must not touch other people's equipment without permission.
6. We must always be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.
7. We must always be mindful of aftercare.
8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.
9. We always protect each others anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.
10. Most importantly, we do not forget to have a good time.
Do you agree? Then post these on your profile, too!

Vanilla Interests:

i'm a online gamer and manga fan and a country music boy at heat

Location:

norfolk (uk)