To define things here in my House better...
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, 02-10-2014 at 03:24 AM (66011 Views)
Mares and Fillies.
A 'Mare' is any woman under my Dominion age 24+ and a 'Filly' is any woman under my Dominion age 18 to 24.
I use the terms 'Mare' and 'Filly' because such connotes the spirit and beauty of wild horses, and also Individualizes our Lifestyle from anyone else's.
After all, Individuality IS a cornerstone of BDSM, yes?
Marlene, Lhana, Wanda are Mares.
Brianna, Fumiko and Mei-Xing are Fillies.
In regards to Breeding, that arises from a rather dark nightmare-fantasy Marlene had, so I went to considerable time, effort and expense to make it come alive for her a couple years back.
It also matches nicely with our efforts in having children.
Most folks turn themselves inside-out with 'trying' for a kid...and usually one sees their marriages come apart from the stress.
Marlene and I have seen it happen in the lives of some friends and we are not going to ruin our marriage the same way.
We decided to simply have fun with it, and all preparations have been made for the day when things start happening, so there's no stress, we're enjoying our preferred Lifestyle and it now serves a Practical aspect in our lives now also.
Marlene, by her own choice, completely handed over her reproductive rights to me and as such I am the sole authority regarding such.
When she's on Breeding Schedule, half the time it occurs arbitrarily based on the same 'randomness' that does happen with most women's ovulation, the remainder of the times it occurs in-line her cycle.
During Breeding Schedule, Marlene remains restrained at all times, the reasons will be explained in a duture entry.
Now, normally, during more active hours, she is kept securely restrained in a straitjacket with supplemental hospital-issue cuffs to minimize arm movement.
During sleep, I needed something that would keep her helpless, but also met Safety Requirements.
Take one of these:
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/at...6&d=1392027147
Add in these:
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/at...9&d=1392025066
The bodystocking has closed sleeve-ends and are double thick material up to the mid-upper arm. With the restraint mitts on, then the bodystocking, it keeps her near-absolutely helpless, yet if emergency should arise, she can still run.
I still remain awake to keep an eye on her and the rest of my girls when they sleep in restraints, and check pulse-points frequently.
This restraint method has been duplicated and can be used on all the girls as I choose.
They love them and hate them--because there's the illusion of freedom until one tries using her hands.